Gary Takacs: So that was just a granular example of something that relates to satisfaction in your practice. But that three year plan, that you all could do this, anyone listening to this, ask you,
Naren Arulrajah: I think they should book a meeting with you, Gary, if they're really serious about changing their future. I have seen you in action, and I think, like you said, you are at a place in life where you don't need to do it. You choose to do it. You choose to help those who want to create a better future for themselves and their patients and their teams. I think just your experience — you probably have asked this question hundreds of times, right? Over the last several years. So you have wisdom, like you can
Gary Takacs: It's transformational there. Yeah. One of the things that I've noticed is that with a new client, we ask that question, as good as could be, what would that look like? And they define it. And then as we go through it, there's somewhat, hey, Gary, can I go back to that? And can I make it bigger? Yes, you can.
Naren Arulrajah: The vision grows. The vision expands. Yeah.
Gary Takacs: And bigger, doesn't it? It can mean a lot of different things. Yeah. Yeah.
Naren Arulrajah: Could be working less, could be, I've got a bigger vision doing only these kind of dentistry, or it could just change, right? Yeah.
Gary Takacs: And their vision gets bigger because they take the blinders off and the limitations off. Yeah. And they ask the question of how good it could be.
Naren Arulrajah: And now they know it can be done because they have already worked with you for a year, and they already see, like, man, a lot of things I thought I would never be able to achieve I've achieved in like six months or one year. So it's, no,
Gary Takacs: No. I wanna put this in context. You've heard me talk about this, but I'm not sure that our listeners of the podcast have heard me talk about this. Let's reflect back to when you were applying to dental school, doctors. Now for some of you, that's relatively recent past if you're younger, right? If you're along in your career, it could be a long time ago. But remember when you were applying to dental school, and you maybe applied to multiple — in some cases you've applied more than one. You applied to multiple dental schools. And back in the day, the way dental schools would inform a dentist of their acceptance was a letter in the mail. Now, all that's changed, it's now normally confirmed by an email.
Gary Takacs: But back — imagine you're mid-career or later. You would go to the mailbox every day, waiting to see if you've gotten something in the mail from the dental school or schools you've applied to. And imagine when you finally — here it is, it's in the mailbox, and you nervously open it up, and you hesitate a little bit. Okay, okay, did I get in? Did I get in? Did I get in? And then you open it up, and the first line in the letter was, congratulations. Pleased to inform you that you have been accepted. Yes. Now that happens by reading an email. Yeah. But imagine how you felt, and I might suggest that up till that period in time, that might have been the happiest day of your life. Now, granted, if you were married or you had kids already, maybe your marriage date was your happiest day. Maybe the day your kids were born was your happiest day. But I'll guarantee for all of you, that was a happy day.
Naren Arulrajah: Of course.
Gary Takacs: And then what happened?
Naren Arulrajah: Good question, Gary.
Gary Takacs: And you'll have to answer. Yeah. I think for many people it's like, well, it wasn't what I thought, or I didn't know what PPO plans were. Yeah.
Naren Arulrajah: And I think the number one mistake that I made, and I think most humans make, is they stop believing they can create the future they want. They just accept this is the way it is. You know what I mean? And I think what you change with your clients by asking this three year question, not just when they become clients, but on a regular basis, is what do you want your future to be? Now, what do you want your future to be? And let's work on building it, creating it. Why are we letting the world tell us what our future is? Why don't we — and again, I think your experience, your wisdom, your knowledge, having done this so many times, makes a huge difference. Gary, by the way, if anyone is trying to find the link to book a meeting with Gary, it's thrivingdentist.com/csm Just do it. Because I really think whether you work with him or not, I really think you need to think about your future. I think it's
Gary Takacs: You owe it to yourself to have that conversation. Yeah. What's really interesting about it is, as I mentioned, as we start to go down the path of achieving that three year — answering that three year question, as good as it could be, what would it look like? Yeah. I've often noticed that the opportunity enlarges, and it becomes bigger. And that's the very cool, when we go back to recapturing that excitement you had about your career when you opened the letter. Why was that such a happy day? Because now you were one step closer to achieving your goal of becoming a dentist. You were one step closer. You weren't done yet. You still had to survive dental school. You still had to pass the boards. You still had to go through the transition to become a practice owner, if that was your wish. But you were one step closer. And if all this episode does is reignite that passion, I will consider this episode a huge success. And you owe it to yourself. You deserve that. You deserve to have the practice be as good as it could possibly be. And here's the interesting thing. Let me be encouraging, Naren. Guess what, it's been done before.
Naren Arulrajah: Yes.
Gary Takacs: There are dentists that can absolutely report, with a polygraph on their wrist, the lie detector test. Yeah. Is your practice as good as it could be? They're gonna say, absolutely. And you know what it is. So it's been done before. My great mentor, Dr. Robert Reed, taught me a very wonderful saying. If it's been done before — complete that sentence, Naren. If it's been done before,
Naren Arulrajah: it must be possible.
Gary Takacs: It must be possible. Yeah. So guess what? It has been done before. Yes. And now you have the opportunity to do that yourself.